My sister has begun her campaign to ensure that Simon thinks of her as Fun Aunt Rhonda, or Aunt Fun for short.
Dear sweet little Simon,
Today you are eight months old and there’s no more denying it: you have a superpower, the ability to make time FLY by. Fly.
One of the biggest changes this month is that you are now sleeping in your own room. What a big boy! Actually, you had no trouble making the transition at all. It was Mommy (and, surprisingly, Daddy) that had a bit of a hard time with it, but we’re getting used to it. Most nights you sleep six or seven hours straight, not that it matters since we still get up to check on you every three or four hours. You like to sleep on your tummy now, and every once in a while you get your arm stuck in a slat, but barring that, you wake up pretty smiley. It is a highlight of my day to come collect you in the morning (although I also enjoy when your daddy does it and I get those extra four minutes of sleep).
You also started swimming lessons at the Y this month. The class is for the littlest kids—six months to two years—and is intended simply to get you used to the water. We have been pleasantly surprised at how well you like it. We were a little dubious since you used to hate your baths so, so much (you’ve outgrown that bath hating by now, though). True to form, you are pretty chilled out in the water, and you look so very adorable in your swim trunks. You do splash more than most of the other kids—we think this is because you are trying to grab the water and, of course, put it in your mouth. Swim lessons are right around your morning nap time (we’re finally getting to have somewhat of a schedule!), so you are pretty crashed out by the end.
It doesn’t take much to entertain you, we’ve found. One of your favorite “toys” is a cup of ice to shake—there was one particularly cute incident with a Runza cup; we were so sad to not have had the video camera for that one. You love to scrunch paper, though you need to be closely supervised since you also love to chew on paper. And you’re starting to sit still a little longer for books, though you still have yet to really make it through them without getting distracted. Magazines are more your pace, probably because they have the added bonus of crinkly paper. Still, your feet are probably your favorite toys—which is nice since they’re always handy.
You love exploring new textures— tree bark, grass, canvas, brick, Daddy’s scruffy face, carpet. And you’ve discovered how to make noise by banging things—your spoon against the high chair tray, the wooden blinds against the window, Daddy’s keyboard (wait . . . what?). I might be sorry for letting you get in the habit of banging on whatever you want, but it’s just so cute (I’m sure this is how bad habits form).
Daddy and I are going to have to get serious about baby-proofing the house. You’re not crawling yet, but you’re getting where you want to go either by rolling there or by what looks kind of like a modified combat crawl—you fold one leg up under you like you’re going to crawl and reach your arms out straight and grab onto whatever you can grab for leverage (blanket, edge of the carpet) and then push your leg straight and pull with your arms. It takes a lot of effort, and I’m sure you’ll find real crawling significantly easier once you get the hang of it.
I still love to watch you interact with people. Often when someone is trying to entertain you, you study him—totally stonefaced—and then, just when the person is about to give up, you bust into a killer grin. Love it (not so much the suspense, but I love the smile when it comes. Totally worth the wait). Yesterday in the store, I got stopped not once but twice by people telling me how cute you are. (I had to pause and consciously respond with the socially acceptable “Thank you. I think so too.” rather than simply gushing “I know! He IS the cutest baby ever!” which was my first thought.) I think you’re actually becoming more aware of people around you—this morning I was listening to a baby reading a book (how fun!), and you stopped what you were doing and turned toward the computer with the biggest smile on your face and began flapping your arms. When I stopped the video, you went back to what you were doing before.
You are beginning to be able to clearly express preferences, whether it be turning your head away from more peas, leaning toward Mama to be held (not gonna lie, I love that), arching your back to avoid sitting, or making a hilarious face at too-spicy guacamole (sorry about that), and it’s fun to have more feedback from you. You are also starting to initiate play (like this game of peekaboo with Aunt Rhonda) and to find things funny. The other day, for example, you stopped nursing to look up at me and laugh. I have no idea what amused you, but it was so spontaneous and joyful. So delightful. And on the other end of the spectrum, you can let out such mournful cries, as I was reminded today when you woke up from your nap. You do tend to be a leeetle bit dramatic; I’m sorry to say you probably get that from me.
You are growing and changing so fast, and the more we get to know you, the more we like you. You ought to know by now that your daddy and I are crazy about you.
Mama loves you, little man.
More pictures of this month here.
My sister has begun her campaign to ensure that Simon thinks of her as Fun Aunt Rhonda, or Aunt Fun for short.
Rebecca tagged me for a meme, so here I go. Actually, truth be told, I started this entry way back when I saw it on Lindsey’s blog, but I’m a terrible procrastinator (can that be my Worst habit?).
A: Attached or Single? Definitely attached. In the spirit of the question, married. But my first thought (ETA: referring to the fact that I am breastfeeding my son, Simon) was, “Yep, attached every two to three hours.”
B. Best Friend? Jason. And beyond that, I have amazing, amazing friends.
C: Cake or pie? Yes, please. Just a little slice of each.
D: Day of choice? Big things seem to happen for us on Wednesdays (started dating, got engaged, Simon was born, brought Simon home from the hospital). These days I look forward to Thursdays (because that’s when Burn Notice is on). But my final answer is Sundays--I love spending time with the family.
E: Essential Item? Something for Simon to chew on. Anything, really.
F: Favorite color? Orange? Green? Not necessarily together, though. My favorite color combination right now is chocolate brown and most any kind of red.
G: Gummy bears or worms? Either. Yum.
H: Hometown? I went to high school in Omaha, but my parents have since moved to Fremont (where I also went to elementary school).
I: Favorite indulgence? Spending a long, long time at a restaurant for dinner.
J: January or July? January. Don’t mind the cold as much as I hate the hot.
K: Kids? One so far.
L: Life isn’t complete without? Family, friends.
M: Marriage date? August 6, 2005
N: Number of brothers and sisters? One younger sister; and one brother-in-law and one sister-in-law.
O: Oranges or apples? Apples.
P: Phobias? Bugs in food.
Q: Quotes? Love ‘em. Used to keep books full of them.
R: Reasons to Smile? I get to spend my days with Simon.
S: Season of choice? Fall. By all means, fall. I don’t even care that winter follows. Fall.
T: Tag 5 People: Shelli and/or Neil, Brook, Charity, Ann, and of course, anyone who is game.
U: Unknown fact? This is becoming more of a known fact since I keep sharing it as an unknown, but anyway: I once made my dad so mad that he passed out.
V: Vegetable? Okay.
W: Worst habit? Paying bills late; starting and not finishing (projects, commitments to healthful living, etc.)
X: X-ray or Ultrasound? Ultrasound, unless it is by that one horrible, horrible, wretched tech at St. Es, then SKIP IT.
Y: Your favorite food? This changes regularly. Lately, I’ve been loving tomatoes with fresh mozzerella and crusty bread.
Z: Zodiac Sign? Leo, but who cares?
For a long time (at least two years), Jason and I have been planning to paint the dining room some great shade of red. More recently, we have been dreaming about decorating our fabulous red dining room with photographs we take when we visit the O’Donnells in Japan next spring (can’t wait! can’t wait! can’t wait!).
But then I was watching an episode of Top Design, and I fell in love with this tree:
And now I kind of want one in our home. I’m thinking on the dining room’s north wall--with the bookcase, opposite the kitchen. (I am also loving the tree in the new Indigo Bridge Books down in the Haymarket). What do you (including you, Jason) think?
Calling it: It’s official. Summer is over. Fall is here. Bring on the pumpkin!
Enjoying a delicious snack of red-pepper hummus and flour tortilla chips.
Making a to-do list.
Cooking up some homegrown peaches (Thanks, Johnsons!)—some for a crisp, and the rest for baby food.
Doing laundry. Oh. my. goodness. Always with the laundry. It doesn’t help that I’m also about four baskets behind on the folding.
Being thankful that the morning passed quickly with Rebecca’s help (we loaded the kiddies up and ran some errands).
Wondering how much sleep a seven-month-old should be getting during the day.
Hoping that Simon’s nighttime sleep habits return to normal. He’s been sleeping (or should I say “waking") like a newborn for a few nights now. Ouch.
Wiping Simons snotty nose . . . but less frequently than yesterday and the day before that (Saturday? I lose track). This is surely at least partly to blame for aforementioned sleepless nights.
Fasting from the computer every evening this week. Time to reconnect with my husband!
Remembering to thaw out the salmon for tonight’s dinner.
Wishing I had eaten more or eaten differently for lunch.
Thinking that this edition of what I’m doing has been awfully food-focused. Ah well . . .
Dear Simon,
This weekend you turned seven months old. We spent most of the day trying to find you a little red outfit--yes, this was one of Mama’s wild hairs, and your Daddy indulged me. You see, we live in a state that has big love for college football, specifically Husker football. Mommy is a fan, and Daddy not as much. We’ll let you decide for yourself. Saturday, though, we initiated you--we drove you downtown during game-day traffic (Ugh!) and we took you to our friends the Koenigs’ house to experience your first Nebraska game (all decked out in your new Husker T-shirt, of course). So far, we’ll just say Huskermania is not your favorite--you mostly couldn’t understand why people had to yell so much.
This month was full of calls to the doctor--and a couple of trips too. You had your first unexplained fever--no shots and no teeth. After our first few calls, we were thinking it was a virus of some kind, but then a week later, your fever showed up again and Mommy hauled you in. They can just hand me the overly cautious mother award right now, but nonetheless, I am so glad I took you in. The doctor that we saw (not our regular pedi) said he thought that all your problems, including the fevers, had to do with your excema issues (hoo boy, you have sensitive skin, kid). We got a prescription to heal up your cheeks, and you have been a different kid (or perhaps I should say back to the same kid we remember). You also visited the eye doctor (just to get a baseline) and the follow-up NICU clinic.
It was a bit of a tough month on the traveling front. You have suddenly decided that you don’t like the carseat after all. We have spent many short (and longer) trips with either Mommy or Daddy (or sometimes a grandparent) in the backseat trying to talk you down from the ledge. This is not my favorite new development, and I hope you will change your mind about the carseat soon.
Mommy and Daddy really enjoyed watching the Olympics this month. As you will see, it is rare that we watch sports in our household, and rarer still that we would DVR them and watch them again and again, but the Olympics are a happy exception. You weren’t allowed to watch the TV, of course, but I think you got the idea as we cheered you on to your gold-medal performance in the cutest baby all-around event. And on an Olympic sidenote, you earned yourself a new nickname this month with all your side to side maneuvers--Béla Károly. You now roll both back to tummy and tummy to back--everywhere and all the time. You are a busy, busy baby.
You are getting the hang of sitting as long as we don’t draw too much attention to the fact that you’re doing it on your own. There have been a few head bonks, but overall your balance is improving every day.
You continue to try new foods. Avacados and brown rice cereal have been the only real hits so far, although you’ve also tolerated sweet potatoes. And you don’t like pears or carrots. Next up apples, squash, and oat cereal.
The playground across the street has been fun. You love to watch the big kids play. You seem to think the swings are okay, if a little boring, depending on the time of day. You are also discovering grass (interesting) and sand (less interesting, though possibly tasty if Mama would only let you get a handful in your mouth).
And this month’s highlight: you’ve started laughing. You think everyone is funnier than Mommy is. One of your favorites is when Daddy does a baby hoedown (this involves his imitation of a banjo, and, as you know, he’s pretty good). Joie and Great Grandma Carlson (and, of course, Daddy) have also found your tickle spots. I tell you, if I could bottle the delight I feel when I hear you laugh, we could solve the world’s energy problems.
You are a joy, and I love spending my days with you. Mama loves you so, so much, little man.
(More Month 7 pictures on the Opuses’ Flickr page)
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